Backdoor Sinners

I was dating this girl who was pretty religious and it had been a couple of months of heavy petting and increasing frustration, but she was adamant about not having sex until she was married. One day, after a particularly frustrating make-out session, she finally broke down and said that she could remain a virgin if she had anal sex, as it wouldn't be actual penetration of the vagina. Well, you can imagine I was all for that! And we had several months of great anal play until her Preacher had a big sermon about how ANY intercourse, vaginal or anal was a sin against God and an abomination. She stopped the anal play. We broke up soon after that.

-- Mike S, Omaha

It might be a little unusual, but I was dating this guy who seemed to know what he was doing - I mean, he gave great head, he knew just where to touch me to send me over the edge and we were having a great time - except we weren't having sex. One night, at a friend's apartment, we decided to go for it, and we finally did the deed. He came in less than thirty seconds. I looked at him oddly and asked "Was that your first time?" He nodded his head yes, and I didn't know how I felt about that. But you know young boys - they recover quickly, and we went at it a few more times. But it's true what they say about your first time - you never forget. He stalked me for months after we broke up.

-- Christine Y, Kenosha, WI

My first time was typical. Yep, in a car. In the backseat, no less, with another couple in the front seat. It was pretty hot and heavy and by the time he got around to actually inserting his love-wand into me, I was so ready for it, I didn't feel the pain at all! We went at it for a while, and the couple in the front kept making comments about the noises we were making; I guess we were pretty enthusiastic. My first time consisted of three times in that back seat and when I went home, my mom kept asking me why I was walking funny. I told her I'd just gotten my period. But I went back to that boy for a long time for lots of quickies, longies, and dangerous sex in hallways and in elevators. We had a great time for a while, until I found out he was telling everyone I was a slut and easy and started getting calls from other guys for dates. Ah, what the hell. I even went out with a few of them.

-- Mary J., New York

Gay sex is taboo, or so they tell me. But there was this boy in high school that really got me turned on. In the showers after gym, walking down the hall. And I thought he was looking at me too. One afternoon, he came over for some tutoring in Calculus. Turns out there was no tutoring in calculus but a lot of tutoring in the many different positions of top and bottom and all the other positions in between, including me inside him and him inside me. Unfortunately, it seemed it was an experiment for him, for we never got together again, but I had those memories to keep me going for years!

-- Christopher, Chicago